Perhaps the most wrenching decision any couple or individual will have to make, divorce by definition leaves one alone and vulnerable.  The problems which must be addressed and the decisions, large and small, which must be made are often difficult, complex, and emotional.  In such a situation a client needs a trusted ally, sensitive to their unique situation and skilled in representing their legal rights.  The attorneys and staff at Weiler & Borst have the experience, understanding and creativity to ensure that the process minimizes further trauma and stress, while we assist the client in making decisions and planning for the future.   The client may choose to proceed via the processes of mediation or collaborative law, or through traditional negotiation and/or litigation. All cases are handled with the same professionalism, thoroughness and adherence to the highest ethical standards that have become the hallmark of our firm.  The ultimate objective is to assure that adults and children alike emerge from the divorce process "winners," capable of moving forward with their lives, confident that legal concerns stand fully and fairly resolved. Divorce and separation may involve any number of legal and/or factual issues.  Most commonly, questions or problems may arise regarding issues of custody, visitation and support or issues relating to division of assets and debts.